Let’s share immigrant stories as #MoreThanALabel

betty ming liu Inspiration, Relationships 5 Comments

I'm thrilled that America's future social workers have asked me to join their campaign against immigrant discrimination. To stop the name-calling, abuse and violence, they are using a very 21st century weapon: the hashtag. #MoreThanALabel is the brainchild of social work graduate students at Simmons College. They want us to attach #MoreThanALabel to anything we post on social media that refers ...
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Pet peeve time: Are you first- or second-generation American?

betty ming liu Relationships, Writing how-to's 46 Comments

I am SO ANNOYED. When will people get this straight??! If you're an immigrant to this country, then you're first generation. If your kids are born here, then they are second generation. Many people assume that being the American-born child of immigrants makes that child the first-generation American. But if that was true, then the folks who come here from ...
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5 reasons why being in a Chinese family is murder & ways to break the cycle

betty ming liu Relationships 18 Comments

Jennifer Pan's parents pushed her to be the perfect daughter. But once she grew up, she hired hit men to kill them. Her story is about more than girl gone bad. Asian family values are detonating in the 21st century. And we must do something about it.  Jennifer's story & our personal stories I found some research studies that might ...

How to vacation with a dog in Vermont

betty ming liu Money, Relationships, Travel 12 Comments

Summer's flying by! The headlines? Daughter home from college. Boyfriend moving in the last of his possessions. Blog under major renovation. Writing, gardening, cleaning, adjusting...and, vacationing. With a dog. The latest dog in my life is Roscoe, a mellow, old shepherd. He and the bf have been together for more than 14 years. They moved in as a package deal. ...
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The price of freedom: My $9k dream vacation

betty ming liu Art, Food, Inspiration, Relationships, Travel 8 Comments

Running away from home for a 10-day painting vacation in France came with a price -- $9,079.80, to be exact. But it's what I wanted to do. I had a great time. Plus, I learned the value of letting go. "Me first" is my new mantra! Everything was new. I'd never gone on a vacation by myself before. Never went ...